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Too many people view love as the element that will complete them, but what they need to realize is that in order to find true love, one must be complete on their own. Emotional wholeness is one of the biggest factors in successful relationships. Before giving your heart to someone, you must have full possession of it and understand its intricacies. The only way to get to that point, is to spend some time alone. Alone time allows you to get to know yourself. It allows you to truly understand your likes and dislikes, and helps you gain the ability to make decisions on your own. Alone time offers you the opportunity to gain emotional independence, and without that, you will be too dependent on your partner when you are in a relationship. Some will ask, how do you know if you're emotionally independent? The answer can often be found by asking yourself a few questions. • Do you feel comfortable sharing your opinion when in group settings? If the answer is yes, that's a step in the right direction. Being confident enough in your own opinion to share it shows a sense of emotional independence. • Do you find that your mood changes drastically based on the moods of others? If the answer is yes, this is a step in the wrong direction. Your mood should be based on internal factors, as opposed to external factors. Of course, there are times where it is incredibly important to be sympathetic, empathetic etc, but if someone is just in a bad mood, it should not bring you into that place as well. You should be able to maintain your positivity even when those around you are being negative. • Are you constantly longing for something more? Striving to better your life is a good thing, but never being grateful for the things you have is not. To be emotionally independent, you must be able to be happy with what you have, while still setting goals and working towards your future. Of course there are many other ways to analyze your emotional independence, but what's most important is that you're aware of its necessity and working towards gaining it. If you get into a relationship without building up your emotional independence, you will become too dependent on your partner, and this can be draining for both of you. Be comfortable and complete on your own, without a partner, and in no time at all you'll find yourself attracting the kind of people you actually want to end up with. You'll find the love you always thought you needed, but now realize, you only want, and that makes it so much more enjoyable.

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